Monthly Archives: February 2012

Help Police 2

I read on the weekend that ” More than one in four cases where police use force involves someone suffering a psychological issue.” That’s in my city. The statistic is alarming -and I don’t believe the story is better in many other big cities in the world.

Thankfully the same article talks about changes in police training, “Under the new training police are being instructed to identify signs of depression and paranoia and are being taught to develop a rapport with people suffering mental issues.”

It is no surprise to me that police “…have found that the traditional authoritarian approach can escalate issues resulting in a disproportionate reliance on force to deal with irrational offenders.”

Another story by the same journalist and published the same day states that “Police are trained to take control in potentially violent situations. There is an escalating scale of responses, beginning with an assertive approach followed by aggressive commands. If the situation deteriorates, then police may use threats (”Back off now or you’ll be in the back of the van”) and, if all else fails, they can use force. But these ”we’re the boss” tactics can go horribly wrong if the subject is not rational. As police ramp up their response, the confused person on the other side sees only a threat. Too often the endplay can be fatal.”

I am glad John Silvester, a respected journalist, has covered the issue, pointing out that people with mental health issues are over represented as the targets of crime and as crime offenders.

There has to be a better way.

Imagine if police responded less to what people say and listen for the feeling in tense or confronting situations. They might hear angst or desperation and they might handle things differently.

*Help Police – the first post on this topic July last year

Are we there yet?

Am I there yet? I am not sure I even know where it was I was going, let alone if I am there. My previous post was number 300. According to Wikepedia 300 has some special proprieties: ” It is a triangular number and the sum of a pair of twin primes (149 + 151), as well as the sum of ten consecutive primes (13 + 17 + 19 + 23 + 29 + 31 + 37 + 41 + 43 + 47).” It is an interesting number, both significant and not so special.

We are born with 300 bones, and I was also endowed with 300 or so blog posts.

From September 7 2009 – February 1 2012 I have written 300 posts here. Wonderersheart is a body of work I am, for the most part, pleased with. Two years and fours months of wondering and exploring, and now in post number 301 a chance to reflect…
- what else to say/read/note/honour/explore or address?
- a chance to stop this incomplete work knowing it will always be incomplete?

So many thoughts and so few answers.

I read some blogging advice a long time ago and recall someone advising that blogging is not therapy. Piffle!

I have found writing blog posts to be fabulous therapy, just don’t tell my therapist – although she would probably agree.

Blogging also demands a writing practice is cultivated. Thank you, dear readers for reading, bearing with me and for forgiving the typos and my lack of editorial nous. I have taken pleasure in clambering onto my own soapbox, a platform that has, at times, been challenging to balance on. I have been slowed many dilemmas: how much to reveal and what to with-hold, which side to take up, and how much might be too much. Now that I have developed a writing practice, it seems there is always another post, even if it is about the posting itself.

There is more to say, I have more resources to link to, more opinions to air, stigmas to address, and more paint balls to lob. I take heed that Wikepdia states that 300 ft/sec is the maximum legal velocity of a shot paintball. Warning noted and, nonetheless, I don’t think I am quite done yet.

Utterly baffling

Back to the death of Gary Speed as the outcome of the Coroners Inquest has been reported in the news.

The coroner could not say if his death was intentional or accidental. While intent was discussed it was not possible to determine from the circumstances. The conclusion of one journalist is that this is “…utterly baffling”.

Suicide, for the most part, is utterly baffling, that’s a conclusion readily reached by grieving family, friends, and colleagues. Those left behind will inevitably remember a person with much to live for. The loss is very painful and cannot be comprehended without empathy for a suicidal mind. It is also known that an individual’s suicidal intent can dissipate, the act may be contemplated but not completed. That is, after all, the premise underscoring suicide prevention efforts, even in the last minutes an intervention is possible, or a change of heart. What happened here?

Gary Speed sat on the steps of his garage with a ligature of cable around his neck, the other end tied to the banister. Perhaps he was contemplating suicide or threatening the same. I know less than the coroner and can only guess. Intentional self-determination or an accident?

The coroner stated that it was possible that Gary Speed nodded off and slipped causing his death. To say in retrospect, if his actions were those of contemplation or an ultimatum is not possible. Troubling and utterly baffling…

Suicide is defies an simple explanation and is typically regarded as without moral justification. It is surrounded by questions without definitive answers, religious, philosophical and psychological questions and it remains confronting and utterly baffling…

If you, or someone you know, needs emotional support call Lifeline on 13 11 14 in Australia. Crisis counselling is available around the world.